That's me in the back behind my mom. I recently read an article in P sychology Today about birth order and personality. I'm the second born in a family of six, all girls. This is important. Had I been born a boy - I would have the personality of the first born even in my family of six because I would be the first and only male. (would that make me an only child too?) As children, first-borns strive to emulate and please their parents, and often dominate and care for their younger siblings. Parents tend to delegate responsibility to firstborns, who identify with their parents and with authority. Therefore, relative to their younger siblings, first-born children tend to be more extraverted and confident, more conformist and conservative, more conscientious and academically inclined, and more dominant and authoritarian. First-borns are likely to be least comfortable in situations that require radical change or innovation , in self-managi...