Throwback Thursday

To you it's just a gum wrapper

First posted 2011

The spring I turned ten I started collecting stuff. Some stuff was given to me. Some stuff I thought was cool and other stuff I thought I might use someday.  For instance, I had what was once the wooden handle of a hammer. The broken end could be sharpen to a point and used to kill vampires in the event of an attack.  In a pinch you could use it to stab a werewolf in the foot, at least that would give you time to get away (I was still on the lookout for a silver bullet.) 

 When mid-summer rolled around, I had almost two shoe boxes full of stuff. Gum wrappers, feathers, sticks, seriously misspelled notes, rocks, and do dads of all kinds. After a morning of playing with my friends, I headed home to empty my pockets to make room for what the afternoon might bring. I went straight to my room, bent down next to my bed, extended my arm under to get one of the boxes. I felt nothing... so I take a look....  my shoe boxes are gone! gone. gone. gone. As in nothing under the bed. No boxes. No dust. Not the lone sock I had my eye on ( the mate was in my drawer/pairs of socks were like gold in our house) I'd been robbed.

 I raced downstairs to my mom, she was sitting at the kitchen table smoking a cigarette and drinking coffee. I was crying hysterically... some--one---my shoe---bo--xes are GON--NE...she took me by the shoulders and firmly said "I cleaned your room and threw out all the boxes, who keeps gum wrappers and sticks?" My eyes widened in shock , I threw myself to the floor and began to scream. I do! I keep gum wrappers and sticks! How could you? Do have any idea what it takes to get a shoe box? We don't buy shoes in boxes!!!!  That's when it hit her. She sat on the floor next to me, put her arms around me and with tears in her eyes said "I'm so sorry I didn't realize what those things meant to you." She calmed me down and assured me I could start a new collection (and she would never ever touch my stuff again) she would even go with me to get more shoe boxes. Two important lessons were learned that day. 

* One: One girls trash might be her treasure. Who are you to judge? 

* Two:  Love means you say you're sorry. Then you dig for shoe boxes out of the trash behind Nickels Department Store.

 Collections Rule

1 comment:

  1. that is so harsh!!!! but i am glad you and your mom handled it so well, and i trust you continue to collect to this day!

    i have many thoughts on this subject. i think most of us collect something. or many things. it gives us meaning and purpose. or it reflects meaning or purpose. or it gives us something to do. SOMETHING. oh, i don't know, but i collect art, books, shoes and jewelry. none of it is very valuable, but it means the world to me. i was reorganizing books just last night, and thinking about rehanging art, and my big thought was IF I DIE I DON'T WANT THIS STUFF THROWN AWAY! I WANT IT TO BE CHERISHED BY SOMEONE WHO WILL LOVE IT AS MUCH AS I DO! maybe i am too "in" to things. maybe. but whatever. i guess we find joy where we can!


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